No te da verguenza! You have no shame!

El otro dia, the other day someone said to me, "no te da verguenza!" "you have no shame," in reference to a comment I made about not cleaning my house. I thought about it and responded, "um, yea why should I." Everyone that lives in our home should help too. I work, go to school, and am a parent. I frankly don't want to spend my spare time cleaning. Not that I have much anyway.

In any case, this made me think about a lot of things I've said on Facebook or on my blog. I really am not embarrassed of many things. I aspire to be successful and one day have a nice home, a more energy efficient car, enough time and money to invest in some cool beauty products... 

But for now I know that while I am working on building my empire of happiness I can't have everything I can imagine. I feel happy for those around me that do, and feel genuinely sad for those that pretend to. 

I am far from perfect. I fight with my family, argue with my husband, and sometimes even yell at my kids. Some nights I watch Mob Wives cause I don't got enough drama in my life, lol. And some days I like to be a hermit. I've decided that is who I am, and I will change things that cause unhappiness in my life but if I don't absolutely have to change then I like me just the way I am. 

The people around me can choose to like me, or not. I will be here.